Well unsure of where to start. At 26 I was going to move to SD, then meet a guy and we had a relationship, 30 years old came fast and found out I was pregnant. We had a beautiful baby girl (Ava). She changed my entire life. She is my pride and joy, her finger was wrapped around me.
I started my own business it was an amazing 4 years almost 5 when I closed my doors. It was to much with a new baby and the juggle of it all (business wise). I then found work in DL and am in DL to this day.
In 2018 we found out we were pregnant again. We were so excited as to we couldn’t believe it, as we found out we where Bless with a baby boy (Bryer). Oh man he is our pride and joy with all 3 of us.
After a few years life changed (we) change and then I moved out got divorced, was only married for 10 months. Life was a ride. You live and learn, you grow, you become something you never thought you would become. First year was major hell. I never wanted this for my life or more off my children as that’s how I grew up. It hurt, hurt really bad. But again choices were made that had to be and life went on. The kids adjusted, they were well taken care of in the mess at the beginning.
Going on to almost 4 years later, life is a joy, the kids and I are happy. Ryan and I are happy. I couldn’t enjoy life without him. He is my calm. I’m sure some of you know how that feels. It’s amazing to have the calm in my life after what I was in before. Adjustments to a new life were different, the understanding of one another was different. But we click and it’s absolutely amazing to enjoy life with someone that appreciates you and for who you now, not what you have and don’t have. Or what you can provide and what you can’t provide. Life is a wonderful blessing and my children feel the calm when they come home. They love the calm. 🥰
Our lives are amazing and the next journey of life that I’m setting up for my children is going to be amazing as well.
Keep following for this amazing life that it’s going to bring. Xoxoxo
It sounds like you’ve been through a lot of ups and downs, but it’s inspiring to see how you’ve found stability and happiness. Your children seem to be thriving, and that’s a testament to your strength and resilience. Ryan sounds like a wonderful partner, bringing calm and balance to your life. It’s clear that you’ve grown so much through your experiences. What steps are you taking to ensure your children continue to feel this calm and love in the future?
Growing, yes alot of it is mindset. Knowing my children have calm now too. My voice is calm even. They feel it and know. I express to my children everything. They know all. Honesty is the best part of me that has grown and shown my kids that if you put your mind to it you can achieve happiness in all the right places. Don’t take shit from no one and I mean no one. Showing them how strong and independent you can become on your own.
I love you baby. Happy to be on this journey with you always
Love you to the moon.